I’m not thankful for cookies or cookie dough, but for the woman helping my two oldest make those cookies. This is Matt’s mom. And believe me, if I posted any more of her than her hands from this activity, she would be mortified. Early morning with jammies on, hair not brushed and coffee breath. It was not her idea of a photo op.
My mother-in-law and I have had our ups and downs. All in all, though, I know how lucky I am. She is always there for me and my children. When my mom was dying, Matt’s parents took me into their home, watched and cared for my children as I would have. This made it possible for me to be with my mother as much as I wanted. How can you ever repay that? I felt so loved at a time that was extremely painful and lonely.
Since then, there has been some drama from both ends. However, I was reminded how giving and loving they are when Brodie got sick while I was staying at my dad’s. It was not ideal to stay with him and Matt had already returned to Chicago. When I called, her answer was, “Of course you will come here.” It was like I had asked whether the sky was blue.
I need to remember how thankful I am for her in my life more often.
…not happy about tearing up at the bus station on the way to Midway’s terminal, but your post reminded me how special my mom really is.
What a wonderful mil you have. Just the fact that she’s willing to bake cookies with her grandkids early in the morning says a lot about how much she cares about them. I’d trade my mil in for her any day!! (The stories I could tell about her would make your jaw drop and leave you speechless)
Yup, I too had mother-in-law horror stories…………………wow, Amy, I think our lives are parallel in so many ways………except your a younger verison of me, lol! 3 boys, your mom has passed away……….in Sept will be 6 years for my mom……….I was pregnant with PJ when she passed away………how old were your boys? If you ever want to chat about it, let me know, even though I’m old (LOL) I still don’t know many people who’ve lost their mom and I don’t beleive anyone can relate unless you’ve been there yourself.
My MIL is now passed as well and even though she drove me completely batty, I miss her, esp. for the kids. Give her an extra hug today from me!
It takes a special person who can see beyond the ups and downs and still give credit for the wonderful things a person does. My mother in law ADORES my kids, but if you can help me figure out how to get her out of bed early enough to make cookies with the boys in the morning, that would be great.
What a sweet post:)
I’m so glad you have your MIL is near you and has been a source of comfort to you at times of need. Mine is a 1000 miles away.